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Our Path to Homeschooling

-Our Path to Homeschooling-

Many people ask us how we knew the decision to homeschool would be the best fit for our family. After all, Mr. Man and myself both attended public school and we turned out fine. (That’s actually debatable. ;))

Well, here’s our story from the beginning…

Our path to homeschooling

I consider myself a very involved parent. Education is highly important to me, more so than to most people. I have always taken a front seat to my child’s learning. I was a familiar face at my child’s school, attending parties, programs, reading nights, and basically any other happening at the school.  Not to mention I was the PTO president for 2 years before deciding to homeschool. I’ve spent hours upon hours inside the school, working with the faculty and staff while getting a first-hand look at what really goes on behind closed doors.
So, understandably, when I decided to pull my kids out to homeschool, the rumors began to fly. Had our PTO, who was made up of some of my closest friends, suddenly had a falling out? Had our teachers not done a good job of educating my kids? Had I joined the ranks of parents who are living in fear of a school shooting? Or was I terrified of the dreaded Common Core? Why would I suddenly decide homeschooling is better?

Honestly, homeschooling is something that I’ve always wanted to do.  Mr. Man would never agree to homeschooling because of Ms. Bookworm’s personality. She was an insanely clingy child, who wanted her mama at all times. And I agreed. She clearly needed to get out and make friends, away from me.

From the get-go, I was not satisfied with her education. I felt that she should be learning more and watching non-educational movies less.  I understand that some parents simply use school as a babysitter. However, I do not and if I wanted her to watch every movie in the Disney vault, I would keep her home and we would watch them together.

This was my first major red flag.

In 4th grade, Ms. Bookworm had the best school year she has ever had. She had a teacher who was different from all other teachers. At the beginning of the year, I honestly was not thrilled about her being in his class. It didn’t take him long to change my mind. Right off the bat, he made it clear that he wasn’t there just as an educator. He was a friend to the kids, a confidant and a good listener. He cared more about the kind of person the kids became rather than if they were straight-A students. He treated the students like people and not just kids. He was teaching them so much more than what was in the textbooks. He was teaching them about life, how to be a successful, kind human being and that bad kids are not always bad adults.
At the same time, Ms. Manners had started kindergarten. We had requested a teacher, as we always do, based on who we felt would be the best fit for our child. She wasn’t a terrible teacher, (we had definitely had far worse) but she just wasn’t learning like I felt she should have been. She is the type of child who picks up on everything. She will spout off a random fact that she learned months or even years ago. So, why was she not thriving at school? She wasn’t a bad student but she didn’t enjoy school. She liked the idea of school, but when it came down to it, she wasn’t the type of child to sit in a desk and quietly wait on other students to finish their work.

It was an eye-opening year for both Mr. Man and I.

Our path to homeschooling

We made the decision around Christmas that we would definitely homeschool the following year but we would let our girls finish out the school year in public school. Around February, I decided on a homeschool curriculum. Wowwy-wow-wow! What a difference between public school and homeschool curriculum. Ms. Manners’ first day of first grade would require reading from a challenging chapter book! She was only learning the letter “P” at this point in kindergarten. (Yes, she already knew her letters and sounds, long before kindergarten.) At this point, it became clear that she would be nowhere near where she needed to be for first grade as a homeschooler.  We made the decision to pull her out of public school and work on getting her up to speed.

The last day of the 3rd quarter was her last day of kindergarten.  We immediately got started on her reading skills. We finished both the preschool and kindergarten portions of her curriculum in just 3  months.  My girl went from sounding out “cat” to reading words like “should” and “laugh.”  More importantly, she actually enjoyed it.

From there, it’s only gotten better. Yes, we’ve hit our share of bumps in the road but we’ve also manages to survive some of life’s curveballs. The path to homeschooling hasn’t been an easy one and it’s definitely been a learning experience.

Do I miss public school? Nope. Sure, there are days I’d love some peace and quiet.  I’d enjoy giving my house a good thorough cleaning and having 6 or 8 hours of “me time.” But I wouldn’t know what to do after the first few days of them being in school. And I know I’d miss them like crazy.  For us right now, our wild and hectic life is so much better because we have the opportunity to homeschool our kids.

Our school is not the greatest in the area but it is also not the worst. But do the teachers teach because they care about shaping our kids’ future or do they teach because they enjoy summer breaks?  I don’t know, but I could probably guess which teachers are teaching for which reason. The reality is, no matter how great of a teacher my child has, they will never care as much about my child as I do. Which leads me to believe that the best place for my kids to learn is right here, in the comfort of their own home, where I can guarantee that they learn to feel beautiful and safe and loved.

And that’s some of the most important things a child can learn.


Our path to homeschooling